රස, අලංකාර, සැරසිලි පිරුණු
ප්රේම කතාවක් දුටිමි
නමුදු
කොතනකවත්
ප්රේමය නොදුටිමි .....
11. 04. 2023 (Bournemouth , UK)
Monday, July 31, 2023
Friday, September 6, 2019
somewhere somehow you left my hand....
(Somewhere around 11.45
am to 12.45 pm) Owl : Hmmmmm
(Just within 01 minute)
11.46 am……..12.46 pm Nobody: Hummm……
.
.
.
(Exactly at) 2.00 pm Nobody:
Your Lunch?
(Within 5 to 20 minutes) Owl : Will go now
(Just within 01 minute)
2.06 pm ………2.21 pm Nobody:
Ok or Hummm…
.
.
.
(Somewhere around 6.00 pm
to 6.20 pm) Owl : Off
(Within 01 minute) 6.01
pm ……………6.21 pm Nobody : within 10 minutes
.
Sharp at 6.15 pm Nobody:
off
Within 5 to 6 minutes)
6.19 pm ……..6.25pm Owl : Go home safely
(Within 01 minute) Nobody: ok
.
.
.
7.16 pm Nobody : Home
7.17 pm Owl : hmmmm
7.18 pm Nobody
: still at office
7.19 pm owl
: Off
7.20 pm Nobody : Parissamin yanna
.
.
.
8.35 pm Nobody : Home?
8.36 pm Owl : Just in
8.37 pm Nobody : Dinner?
8.38 pm Owl
: will eat
.
.
.
11.30
pm Nobody : Take care of yourself… Good night… Budu
Saranai…. Sathutin parissamin enna
11.32
pm Owl : Hmmmmm
11.33
pm Nobody :
Hummm…..
කාලෙත් එක්ක සම්බන්ධකම් කොයි තරම් නීරස වෙන්න පුළුවන්ද?....එක්කෙනෙක්
තප්පරයකින් අමතක කරන කොට අනිත් කෙනා ඒක දරා ගන්න කොයිතරම් ආයාසයක් ගන්නවද?....මේ කෙටි
පණිවිඩ 2..3 එනකම් කී
සැරයක් නම් phone එක check කරනවද ?...පැය ගානක් phone එකට ඔරවන ගමන් දන්නෙම
නැතිව නින්ද ගිහින් ආයෙත් උදේ නැගිට්ටම හිස් කියලා දැනගෙනත් phone එක check කරන්න තරම්ම
මෝඩයි... මැරෙන්න තරම්
වේදනා උනත් ඇයි අත අරින්න මේ තරම් දුක….
Tuesday, March 19, 2019
Thursday, March 7, 2019
“If I Die”
What do you mean by “If I die?”
Losing your body, losing your soul, losing your memory or
losing my love?
If it is “losing your body”…
It was never mine,
And I am not the person whom you hold in your arms when the
night is cold or I am not the one who sleep next to you when you wake up every
morning…. And I am not the one who smell your breath every minute ….
Still… you live within me
What do you mean by “If I die?”
If it is “losing your soul”…
You never share your soul with me,
I am not the soul mate of yours, with whom you experience a
love so deep, strong and complex, which u begin to doubt that you have ever
truly loved anyone prior – a connection so strong that you are drawn to them in
a way you have never experienced before….
Still… I see you,
your soul as crystal clear
What do you mean by “If I die?”
If it is “losing your memory”…
I was never the song you whisper
I am the always who comes last to your mind… who is forgotten
for weeks, being replaced easily, never a priority and the option before the
last. .. The one who is never saved in the memory lane… the picture never captured
by your mind…
Still… you always in my permanent memory
What do you mean by “If I die?”
If it is “losing my love”…
You never loved me
I never cross your mind, not the first
choice or the favorite, not the water you need or the jam you taste…. Not the
sun or the moon but the star and the cloud …I am not the beat of your heart or the
love of your life….
Still… love you-truly, madly, deeply
So what “if you die?”
Nothing will change or nothing will take you away from me. My
mind will hold your memory, my heart will keep the love and faith will let me
know where I will meet you again.
Thursday, February 21, 2019
Saturday, May 19, 2018
සමහරක් සබඳකම්…..
දින 23 ක්,
පැය 552 ක්....
විනාඩි නම් 33,120 ක්.
එනමුඳු.....
විනාඩි 5 ක් වෙන් කරන්න තරම්,
නොවැදගත්
කථාවක්.
පෙරවඳන්...
පසුවඳන්....
කුමකටද ඒ තරම්
?
ලාබයි සමහරක්
සබඳකම් ....
අපි නොහිතනා
තරම්.
My
heart weeps silently
19 SAT, MAY-2018 at 4.59 am
Friday, November 24, 2017
Breaking the Stereotype and being “Absolutely Wrong Women”
In an unexpected moment from an
unexpected person I received this statement that “you are an absolutely wrong
women”. Even though its just 6 words, the depth hit the deepest point of the
heart and started echoing in my mind continuously asking the same question from
myself. “Am I? Absolutely wrong women… to whom? In which way? Then who am I?” I
understood the gravity of those words and the impact on one individual can
create to another using terrible words intentionally or unknowingly.
Although the women are way more
active in the workforce and also in working environment, most of us still believe
that women thrive solely on feminine jobs that involve giving birth to a baby,
taking care of children, health, beauty, culinary work and managing household
specially the kitchen.
Stereotypes about women are
deeply embedded in our culture. They permeate every aspect of our communication
with one another: being a teenage girl, being a girlfriend, sibling, wife,
mother, grandmother, working women, dress sense, education, her freedom, her
duties, her responsibilities…..… you name it. It doesn’t take long before they
wiggle their way into our minds, and from there they sneak into our stories.
From nature we humans are very lazy. That is the main reason why stereotypes
are flourishing and passing from one person to another… one society to another
and one generation to another. These
created pictures or imaginary scenarios always allow us to take mental
shortcuts when we need to make judgment and decision about women. So when we meet a women we always use their
appearance, behavior or the other obvious characteristics to compare them with
the mental picture we have and in most of cases we jump into false imaginations
of what she is without actually putting an effort to find who she is.
She is wearing glasses so she
must be socially awkward, she is fat …gosh how she is going to find a man, she
has no fashion sense must be nerd, she talk like a boy no decency, her dress is
too short might be characterless, she is having a tattoo like prostitute, she
has lot of boyfriends might be a supper catch, she is too educated ohh sure she
is going through a very unsuccessful marriage, she is not wearing a her wedding
ring ohh seems problems in her marriage… those are few of many stereotypes that
are portrayed in our society.
In this new level of popular
culture women represent a different role. A more important and much serious
role than before. Being educated, representing managerial roles in corporate
world, being independent, free thinking and looking around with open eyes is
not a crime. It’s just breaking the stereotypes. So how come those women
becoming absolutely wrong? Yes they are absolutely wrong for the men, women or
for societies where still living with that stereotype attitudes but not for the
people who moves with positive changes. I am sure most of today’s ladies have been
probably been discriminated against, or treated differently, at some point in their
life because of a stereotype that was long ago applied to our culture. For
some, I perceive it may be worse than others.
From the time we are born, from
the cultural backgrounds we are coming from, we are taught or groomed how to
behave like a boy or as a girl. Boys are supposed to be tough, encourage to
never show fear, and to never express emotions. They are taught to be brave,
strong and to be independent while girls are taught to be well-mannered,
proper, and always say thank you and please. As a result girls grow up
believing they are meant to become a housewife and mother, taking care of the
children, need to be a dependent of a strong man while tending to the house.
Therefore most women are stereotyped as weak, emotional and need to be
supported while men are considered the idols. Because of this stereotype, many
women struggle with activities that they are excluded and/or discouraged from.
In the modern era, stereotypes seem to be the way people justify and simplify
the society.
Therefore while dumping those
culturally defined ideas about being women I think it’s good to be absolutely wrong
women no matter how society defines you. Because all cultures, all communities
prefer kind of a class of people over others. All those years I had a pretty
good idea about growing up, be independent one day and playing a role as I
always dreamed. For that, all the women I knew and all strong ladies around me
played a very strong role models. They all had something common same time
something different which made them unique from each other. Today standing in this messed up society when
I am looking back I am seriously wondering how the hell they made that. We never
want to be a men or never want to compare ourselves with men. Men is men and we
should appreciate them all the time for what they do because there are things
they do which we cant.… yet women should be appreciated… appreciated ourselves
too for what we do which all men can’t do. It’s
tough… absolutely difficult… and un-explainable to be an absolutely wrong
women.
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